In the world of dating apps and LinkedIn, it's easy to treat people like resumes. We create "bullet points" of what we think we need:
As relationship expert Esther Perel notes, an overemphasis on qualifications can often overshadow the unexpected pleasure of meeting someone new. 2. Theory vs. Practice Perfect On Paper
The idiom "on paper" has been around since the late 1700s to contrast written plans with concrete reality. In Sophie Gonzales’ novel Perfect on Paper , protagonist Darcy Phillips is a "love guru" who gives stellar relationship advice to classmates—yet her own love life is a total disaster. In the world of dating apps and LinkedIn,
Why do we find ourselves stuck in "perfect on paper" situations, and how do we break free? 1. The Checklist Trap Perfect On Paper