There’s often a weird pressure for women in comedy to choose: do you want to be glamorous or do you want to be hilarious? To that, I say: why not both? You can wear red lipstick and still be the funniest person in the room. Comedy is about authenticity. Whether you're discussing the chaos of parenting or the dark, messy aspects of being human, being unapologetically yourself is what truly connects with an audience. 4. Pro Tips for the Aspiring Funny Girl
Whether you want to try an open mic or just add some humor to your workplace, remember to keep showing up for yourself. comedienne
Being a isn't just about telling jokes; it's a lifestyle of observation, grit, and very late nights. Here’s a peek behind the curtain of what it really takes to find the funny. 1. The Art of the Open Mic There’s often a weird pressure for women in
If you want the audience to like you, show them you're having fun too. Comedy is about authenticity
One of the most important lessons in comedy is knowing your . A mentor once told me you need to know "what house you're going to live in before you buy the furniture". Whether your style is sharp social commentary like Heather Jay Harris or the "nomadic, edgy" vibe of someone like Trish Smart , consistency is the secret sauce to building momentum. 3. The "Pretty vs. Funny" Myth
The best way to get better is with a live audience—it’s instant, brutal, and beautiful feedback. For many of us, this means balancing a full-time job with the "open mic hustle." If it's a weeknight, I have to calculate the travel radius to ensure I still get enough rest for my 9-to-5, yet I always show up with energy because that one stage spot is precious. 2. Finding Your Voice (and Your "House")
At the end of the night, when the mic is back on the stand and the room is empty, the goal remains the same: to find the inner grit to keep showing up. Because if I'm not laughing at the absurdity of it all, how can I expect you to?
