Use plenty of water-based lubricant to prevent irritation or damage to sensitive skin.
Directly stimulate the external sphincter by moving your thumbs in a gentle "twiddling" or circular motion. This helps relax the muscles for potential penetration. ass gay massage
If moving toward internal massage, use a "come hither" motion with a lubricated finger toward the front of the body to locate the prostate. Use plenty of water-based lubricant to prevent irritation