A curated collection of REAPER resources
Act For Relationship Issues Russ Harris, 2017 Apr 2026
Identifying the difference between your current behavior and your ideal self.
Since it focuses on your actions, it can feel one-sided if your partner isn't also doing the work. ACT For Relationship Issues Russ Harris, 2017
The book is built on the idea that "happily ever after" is a myth. Instead, it teaches: Identifying the difference between your current behavior and
This is a top-tier resource for couples stuck in cycles of resentment. It is less about "fixing the spark" and more about building a durable, values-based foundation that can survive the natural ebbs and flows of love. Instead, it teaches: This is a top-tier resource
Harris replaces complex psychology with simple concepts like the "Disconnection/Connection" loop.
It avoids the "who is right" trap and focuses on what works for the relationship.
Acting like the partner you want to be, regardless of how your partner acts. ✅ Pros: Why it Works